Italian Grammar Bank

ITALIAN REFLEXIVE VERBS

In addition to verbs in active and passive forms, there are also reflexive verbs in Italian. What are they?

A verb takes the reflexive form when the subject performs an action directed at the subject itself.

Therefore, the subject both performs and undergoes the action (we can also say that it’s both the subject and the object of the action).

PRONOMINAL PARTICLES

To form reflexive verbs in Italian, you’ll need pronominal particles mi, ti, si, ci, vi, meaning myself, yourself, him/his/itself, ourselves, yourselves and themselves.

PRONOUNPRONOMINAL PARTICLE
Iomi
Tuti
Lui/Leisi
Noici
Voivi
Lorosi

HOW TO USE REFLEXIVE VERBS

Reflexive verbs in Italian require the reflexive pronoun to precede the indicative form of the verb when conjugated.

Although reflexive verbs follow the same conjugation patterns as regular verbs, they do not allow for the omission of pronouns. Therefore, within a sentence, reflexive pronouns (pronominal particles) always come before the verb.

PATTERN

Subject + Pronominal particle + Verb

Let’s now look at an example:

Io mi lavo.

I wash myself.

Let’s now look at some of the most used Italian tenses (almost all tenses follow this pattern, see exeptions after the table):

INDICATIVO PRESENTEINDICATIVO PASSATO PROSSIMOINDICATIVO IMPERFETTOINDICATIVO FUTURO SEMPLICE
Io mi lavo Io mi sono lavato Io mi lavavo Io mi laverò
Tu ti lavi Tu ti sei lavato Tu ti lavavi Tu ti laverai
Lui si lava Lui si è lavato Lui si lavava Lui si laverà
Noi ci laviamo Noi ci siamo lavati Noi ci lavavamo Noi ci laveremo
Voi vi lavate Voi vi siete lavati Voi vi lavavate Voi vi laverete
Loro si lavano Loro si sono lavati Loro si lavavano Loro si laveranno

Notice how reflexive verbs always use the verb essere, and not avere, to form complex tenses.

In the infinitive form, the last letter “-e” is substituted by “-si”, so we have, for example, the active verb “lavare” (to wash) and the reflexive verb “lavarsi” (to wash oneself).

In the negative imperative form, the pronominal particles can either be placed before the verb, as usual, or after, becoming one with the verb. Look at the examples:

Non ti preoccupare!Don’t worry!
Non vi preoccupate!Don’t worry! (plural)
Non preoccuparti!Don’t worry!
Non preoccupatevi!Don’t worry! (plural)

The particle and the verb become one also in other sentences with the infinitive form, for example:

Per svegliarmi ho bisogno di un caffè.

I need a coffee to wake (myself) up.

Non vede l’ora di sdraiarsi.

He/She can’t wait to lay down.

In the affirmative imperative form, the pronominal particles are not placed in front of the verb, but after, and they become one with the verb. See some examples:

Alzati!!Get up!
Alzatevi!Get up! (plural)
Vèstiti!Get dressed!
Fermatevi!Stop!

In the gerund tense, the particles also become one with the verb.

Lamentandoti non risolverai niente.

You won’t get anything solved by complaining.

IMPROPER REFLEXIVE VERBS

There are also verbs similar to reflexives but not properly reflexive. These are divided into apparent, reciprocal, and pronominal reflexive verbs.

Apparent reflexive verbs: with these verbs, the subject does not undergo the action, and we have another object after the verb.

Marco si lava i denti.

Marco brushes his teeth.

Reciprocal reflexive verbs: in these cases, pronominal particles indicate a reciprocal action, performed by two subjects reciprocally.

I miei genitori si amano molto.

My parents love each other very much.

Reflexive pronominal verbs: with these verbs, pronominal particles are part of the verb as suffixes, without any reflexive value.

Gli adolescenti spesso si ribellano ai genitori.

Teenagers often rebel against their parents.

THE MAIN REFLEXIVE VERBS + EXAMPLES

Many verbs that are reflexive in English are also reflexive in Italian, but not all are reflexive in both languages. Here are the most common Italian reflexive verbs, along with a real-life example and its translation:

ITALIANENGLISHEXAMPLE
alzarsito get up Mi alzo sempre alle 8.
I always get up at 8.
addormentarsito fall asleep Non riesco ad addormentarmi.
I can’t fall asleep.
ammalarsito get sick Si è ammalato in vacanza.
He got sick on holiday.
annoiarsito get bored Vi annoiate?
Are you bored?
chiamarsito call oneself Come ti chiami?
What’s your name? (Lit. How are you called?)
dimenticarsito forget Non ti dimenticare/dimenticarti di buttare la spazzatura!
Don’t forget to throw out the garbage!
divertirsito have fun Ti sei divertito?
Did you have fun?
farsi la barbato shave Sono due giorni che non mi faccio la barba
I haven’t shaved for two days.
farsi la doccia/il bagnoto have a shower/take a bath Appena arrivo a casa mi faccio una bella doccia
As soon as I get home I’ll have a nice shower.
fermarsito stop oneself Fermati!
Stop!
girarsito turn around Non si sono girati.
They didn’t turn around.
innamorarsito fall in love Mi sono innamorato.
I fell in love.
lamentarsito complain Si lamenta sempre.
He/She’s always complaining.
lavarsito wash oneself Mi lavo le mani.
I wash my hands.
mettersito put on, wear Non ho niente da mettermi.
I don’t have anything to wear.
mettersi ato begin to Si è messo a urlare come un pazzo.
He started screaming like crazy.
prepararsito get ready Preparatevi a una novità.
Get ready for something new.
presentarsito introduce oneself Mi presento: sono Elisa.
I introduce myself: I’m Elisa.
ricordarsito remember Mi ricorderò per sempre di te.
I will always remember you.
riposarsito rest La mamma si sta riposando.
Mum is resting.
sdraiarsito lay down Mi sono sdraiato sull'erba.
I laid down on the grass.
sedersito sit down Sedetevi qui.
Sit here.
sentirsito feel Non mi sento tanto bene.
I don’t feel very well.
sposarsito get married Non voglio sposarmi!
I don’t wanna get married!
svegliarsito wake up A che ora ti svegli di solito?
What time do you usually get up?
vergognarsito be ashamed Non ti vergogni?
Aren’t you ashamed of yourself?
vestirsito get dressed Vèstiti pesante.
Wear something warm.

REFLEXIVE VERBS FOR EMPHASIS

Many transitive verbs can also be used as reflexives simply to give emphasis to the expression:

Mi mangerei un pollo intero.

I would eat a whole chicken.

Cosa ti sei comprato?

What did you buy?

Mi sono bevuto una bottiglia di vino da solo.

I drank a whole bottle of wine by myself.

Mi sono fatto una dormita colossale.

I had a massive nap.

In all the examples, it would have been perfectly fine to use the non-reflexive form (mangerei, hai comprato, ho bevuto, ho fatto), but the reflexive form gives these sentences some kind of emphatic, colloquial and native-like tone.


Here’s everything you need to know about reflexive verbs. They’re quite frequent in Italian and, as usual, the best way to learn them isn’t to repeat a list, but to listen and practice.

Reflexive verbs can be found everywhere! For example, in the catchy chorus of this song from the 90s:


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FAQs

What are reflexive verbs in Italian?

Reflexive verbs in Italian are those where the subject performs an action directed at itself. This means that the subject both performs and undergoes the action.

What are some reflexive verbs in Italian?

Common reflexive verbs in Italian include alzarsi (to get oneself up), addormentarsi (to fall asleep), ammalarsi (to get sick), annoiarsi (to get bored), and many more.

Do reflexive verbs always use the verb “essere”?

Yes, reflexive verbs always use the auxiliary verb “essere” (to be) in compound tenses.

How do you form reflexive verbs in Italian?

Reflexive verbs in Italian are formed by adding pronominal particles such as mi, ti, si, ci, vi, or si to the infinitive form of the verb, depending on the subject pronoun.

How can reflexive verbs be used for emphasis in Italian?

Reflexive verbs can also be used with transitive verbs to add emphasis to expressions. For example: “Mi mangerei un pollo intero” (I would eat a whole chicken).

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