Italian Grammar Bank
ITALIAN REFLEXIVE VERBS
In addition to verbs in active and passive forms, there are also reflexive verbs in Italian. What are they?
A verb takes the reflexive form when the subject performs an action directed at the subject itself.
Therefore, the subject both performs and undergoes the action (we can also say that it’s both the subject and the object of the action).
PRONOMINAL PARTICLES
To form reflexive verbs in Italian, you’ll need pronominal particles mi, ti, si, ci, vi, meaning myself, yourself, him/his/itself, ourselves, yourselves and themselves.
PRONOUN | PRONOMINAL PARTICLE |
---|---|
Io | mi |
Tu | ti |
Lui/Lei | si |
Noi | ci |
Voi | vi |
Loro | si |
HOW TO USE REFLEXIVE VERBS
Reflexive verbs in Italian require the reflexive pronoun to precede the indicative form of the verb when conjugated.
Although reflexive verbs follow the same conjugation patterns as regular verbs, they do not allow for the omission of pronouns. Therefore, within a sentence, reflexive pronouns (pronominal particles) always come before the verb.
PATTERN
Subject + Pronominal particle + Verb
Let’s now look at an example:
Let’s now look at some of the most used Italian tenses (almost all tenses follow this pattern, see exeptions after the table):
INDICATIVO PRESENTE | INDICATIVO PASSATO PROSSIMO | INDICATIVO IMPERFETTO | INDICATIVO FUTURO SEMPLICE |
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Io mi lavo | Io mi sono lavato | Io mi lavavo | Io mi laverò |
Tu ti lavi | Tu ti sei lavato | Tu ti lavavi | Tu ti laverai |
Lui si lava | Lui si è lavato | Lui si lavava | Lui si laverà |
Noi ci laviamo | Noi ci siamo lavati | Noi ci lavavamo | Noi ci laveremo |
Voi vi lavate | Voi vi siete lavati | Voi vi lavavate | Voi vi laverete |
Loro si lavano | Loro si sono lavati | Loro si lavavano | Loro si laveranno |
Notice how reflexive verbs always use the verb essere, and not avere, to form complex tenses.
In the infinitive form, the last letter “-e” is substituted by “-si”, so we have, for example, the active verb “lavare” (to wash) and the reflexive verb “lavarsi” (to wash oneself).
In the negative imperative form, the pronominal particles can either be placed before the verb, as usual, or after, becoming one with the verb. Look at the examples:
Non ti preoccupare! | Don’t worry! |
Non vi preoccupate! | Don’t worry! (plural) |
Non preoccuparti! | Don’t worry! |
Non preoccupatevi! | Don’t worry! (plural) |
The particle and the verb become one also in other sentences with the infinitive form, for example:
In the affirmative imperative form, the pronominal particles are not placed in front of the verb, but after, and they become one with the verb. See some examples:
Alzati!! | Get up! |
Alzatevi! | Get up! (plural) |
Vèstiti! | Get dressed! |
Fermatevi! | Stop! |
In the gerund tense, the particles also become one with the verb.
IMPROPER REFLEXIVE VERBS
There are also verbs similar to reflexives but not properly reflexive. These are divided into apparent, reciprocal, and pronominal reflexive verbs.
Apparent reflexive verbs: with these verbs, the subject does not undergo the action, and we have another object after the verb.
Reciprocal reflexive verbs: in these cases, pronominal particles indicate a reciprocal action, performed by two subjects reciprocally.
Reflexive pronominal verbs: with these verbs, pronominal particles are part of the verb as suffixes, without any reflexive value.
THE MAIN REFLEXIVE VERBS + EXAMPLES
Many verbs that are reflexive in English are also reflexive in Italian, but not all are reflexive in both languages. Here are the most common Italian reflexive verbs, along with a real-life example and its translation:
ITALIAN | ENGLISH | EXAMPLE |
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alzarsi | to get up |
Mi alzo sempre alle 8.
I always get up at 8. |
addormentarsi | to fall asleep |
Non riesco ad addormentarmi.
I can’t fall asleep. |
ammalarsi | to get sick |
Si è ammalato in vacanza.
He got sick on holiday. |
annoiarsi | to get bored |
Vi annoiate?
Are you bored? |
chiamarsi | to call oneself |
Come ti chiami?
What’s your name? (Lit. How are you called?) |
dimenticarsi | to forget |
Non ti dimenticare/dimenticarti di buttare la spazzatura!
Don’t forget to throw out the garbage! |
divertirsi | to have fun |
Ti sei divertito?
Did you have fun? |
farsi la barba | to shave |
Sono due giorni che non mi faccio la barba
I haven’t shaved for two days. |
farsi la doccia/il bagno | to have a shower/take a bath |
Appena arrivo a casa mi faccio una bella doccia
As soon as I get home I’ll have a nice shower. |
fermarsi | to stop oneself |
Fermati!
Stop! |
girarsi | to turn around |
Non si sono girati.
They didn’t turn around. |
innamorarsi | to fall in love |
Mi sono innamorato.
I fell in love. |
lamentarsi | to complain |
Si lamenta sempre.
He/She’s always complaining. |
lavarsi | to wash oneself |
Mi lavo le mani.
I wash my hands. |
mettersi | to put on, wear |
Non ho niente da mettermi.
I don’t have anything to wear. |
mettersi a | to begin to |
Si è messo a urlare come un pazzo.
He started screaming like crazy. |
prepararsi | to get ready |
Preparatevi a una novità.
Get ready for something new. |
presentarsi | to introduce oneself |
Mi presento: sono Elisa.
I introduce myself: I’m Elisa. |
ricordarsi | to remember |
Mi ricorderò per sempre di te.
I will always remember you. |
riposarsi | to rest |
La mamma si sta riposando.
Mum is resting. |
sdraiarsi | to lay down |
Mi sono sdraiato sull'erba.
I laid down on the grass. |
sedersi | to sit down |
Sedetevi qui.
Sit here. |
sentirsi | to feel |
Non mi sento tanto bene.
I don’t feel very well. |
sposarsi | to get married |
Non voglio sposarmi!
I don’t wanna get married! |
svegliarsi | to wake up |
A che ora ti svegli di solito?
What time do you usually get up? |
vergognarsi | to be ashamed |
Non ti vergogni?
Aren’t you ashamed of yourself? |
vestirsi | to get dressed |
Vèstiti pesante.
Wear something warm. |
REFLEXIVE VERBS FOR EMPHASIS
Many transitive verbs can also be used as reflexives simply to give emphasis to the expression:
In all the examples, it would have been perfectly fine to use the non-reflexive form (mangerei, hai comprato, ho bevuto, ho fatto), but the reflexive form gives these sentences some kind of emphatic, colloquial and native-like tone.
Here’s everything you need to know about reflexive verbs. They’re quite frequent in Italian and, as usual, the best way to learn them isn’t to repeat a list, but to listen and practice.
Reflexive verbs can be found everywhere! For example, in the catchy chorus of this song from the 90s:
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FAQs
What are reflexive verbs in Italian?
Reflexive verbs in Italian are those where the subject performs an action directed at itself. This means that the subject both performs and undergoes the action.
What are some reflexive verbs in Italian?
Common reflexive verbs in Italian include alzarsi (to get oneself up), addormentarsi (to fall asleep), ammalarsi (to get sick), annoiarsi (to get bored), and many more.
Do reflexive verbs always use the verb “essere”?
Yes, reflexive verbs always use the auxiliary verb “essere” (to be) in compound tenses.
How do you form reflexive verbs in Italian?
Reflexive verbs in Italian are formed by adding pronominal particles such as mi, ti, si, ci, vi, or si to the infinitive form of the verb, depending on the subject pronoun.
How can reflexive verbs be used for emphasis in Italian?
Reflexive verbs can also be used with transitive verbs to add emphasis to expressions. For example: “Mi mangerei un pollo intero” (I would eat a whole chicken).
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